Not everyone wants you to go ahead with your plans. Negotiate this situation with care.
You need to stop, take a deep breath, and appreciate what's happening around you. Analyse it, consider it, look for all the connections. Try to see where you are before you take a step towards where you want to go. Taking stock of this moment in time allows you to make more informed choices about what to do next. Don't head blindly into your future. Make yourself a map of where you've been and where you are, so that the road ahead is less of a mystery. You can't plan every aspect of the future, but you can certainly come up with a well-considered prediction.
Listen to what is being said, ask clarifying questions and rephrase what they are telling you in your own words; they'll soon realise that you really are paying close attention.